As a senior, I’m dealing with a lot of concerns that seem to get worse as graduation gets near. My major concern for this year, if you must know, is college. Just thinking of it makes my head swirl. I’m feeling like I’m in a tight maze, suffocating with the application process and rejection anxiety, while hopes of getting into my dream college swirl all around me. And to be honest, sometimes it feels like a huge headache!

Feeling paralyzed by the uncertainties surrounding college admissions is a common feeling that many seniors go through. It’s almost like there’s a cloud of worry that follows us everywhere when we are under pressure to do our best. I personally worry a lot because I feel like I’m losing control of my life. I’m anxious about what the future holds and how everything will turn out to be. I know I’m experiencing the same anxiety and tension as many other seniors when applying to college, but we can control our anxiety by comprehending why this procedure seems so annoying. The pressure comes from a variety of sources, so let’s take a look at what makes this step of the procedure so difficult. 

1. The application process: 

For many students, the college admission process might be intimidating. There is much to handle, from choosing the best universities to handling several platforms like Naviance, the Common App, and specific college portals. It can seem like a large burden to comprehend the requirements of each university, including test scores, recommendation letters, essays, and transcripts. Also meeting deadlines is important. Since a single mistake could impact an entire application, the anxiety of missing a deadline can lead to additional stress. 

2. Deciding on the college you feel is right:

Choosing the college that feels like the best fit for me has been a self discovery journey. I’ve given my priorities a lot of thought, including the campus atmosphere, the school’s location along with its distance, its size, and whether I prefer a more quiet and intimate campus, or a more busy and popular one. I often ask myself hypothetical questions like, “Do I prefer the energy of a large public university, or will I fit better in a private college?” I’m trying to follow my instincts since I know that finding a location where I can succeed is important for me. My future will be shaped by this choice, therefore I want to make sure it’s a campus that genuinely encourages me. 

3. Socializing and self determination:

For me, starting college represents a significant life transition more than just classes and textbooks. I’m leaving my family behind, moving away from home, and entering a whole new environment. I’ll have to get used to a completely new daily schedule, meet new people, and discover new areas in addition to adjusting to new surroundings. I’m learning to balance my studies with my social life, and become more independent. I’m aware that I’ll have to rely on myself, use my time wisely, and overcome many obstacles, also having to expect the unexpected. Therefore, I feel I have a lot on my plate right now. To succeed in college, I understand that I need to lean on myself, lean on others’ comfort and support, and create social bonds while I settle in this. 

4. Getting either accepted or rejected: 

Waiting for an answer from a perfect college can be rather draining. I can’t help but feel nervous as I keep checking my inbox in the hopes of hearing from someone. I feel heavy with the burden of fees, tuition, and scholarships, which makes me feel so locked up. It might be intimidating at times to think about handling the financial issues and handling this complicated process. but I am aware that in order to build the possibilities I desire and shape my future the way I see it, I must meet these problems directly and mindfully. 

I know that everything I’ve mentioned feels like an emotional rollercoaster, but I have faith in us! So, senior to senior, here’s some advice. Instead of letting the stress of approaching college decisions get to you, consider this as an opportunity for growth. Although fearing rejection or waiting for acceptance might be draining, remember that these feelings are only temporary. Be mindful of the support from your loved ones and accept the changes that are ahead. When needed, it’s okay to stop and take deep breaths (as seniors, we need this more than we think). College is an opportunity for a fresh start and a chance to discover true goals in life, regardless of how overwhelming it feels at first. You’ll soon find your routine if you take it slow and have confidence in your capacity to adjust.